Get your twins on the same schedule as soon as you can. Having two babies on two separate schedules can end up being the death of you. You have to get your rest where you can but twins who are hungry and sleepy at different times will keep you from doing so. If one wakes up hungry, feed him and then wake up the other one. Make sure to lay them down at the same time. It won't take long before they start getting on the same schedule.
Children know more than what you're willing to tell them, so try to save that "You're too young to understand" stuff for only the most serious topics. You don't want to patronize your children in any way. If they are able to understand something, it doesn't hurt you at all to explain it to them.
Stick to a flexible routine and schedule. Try to plan meals at about the same time each day. The same is true for nap time and bed time. Children respond well to a routine. Their bodies physically adapt to it, and their time clock will, in time, automatically respond to it.
Give your child choices in order to avoid time-consuming tantrums. If you're tired of being late to work because your child won't wear the clothes you put out for him or her, try laying out two or three outfits the night before and allow them to pick what they will wear in the morning. You'll be amazed how readily they'll get dressed when they did the choosing.
As a parent, take the time to give your child or children physical attention. Your children seek a physical bond with you, and it can be accomplished by giving each other lots of hugs, kisses, and even by snuggling with them watching their favorite television program or reading a book with them.
Allow your child to pick out what instrument they want to play and even to decide if they want to play an instrument in the first place. Guidance is good, but manipulation is not. The flute might be more palatable to our aging ears but they may indeed be heartbroken if they can't play the snare drum!
Parenting requires balance! Find a good balance between punishment and reward. You don't want to push your children too hard, but at the same time you don't want to be too easy on them. You need to find the right balance between the two, so that your children can achieve much without cracking under the pressure!
While homework time can be a major source of friction at home, it can also be a gateway to a more positive relationship between you and your children. Instead of just telling the kids to go work on their assignments, take a moment to sit and go over your child's work or even just ask about what they are working on. These small efforts help show your kids that you value their efforts and care for their academic progress.
Children know more than what you're willing to tell them, so try to save that "You're too young to understand" stuff for only the most serious topics. You don't want to patronize your children in any way. If they are able to understand something, it doesn't hurt you at all to explain it to them.
Stick to a flexible routine and schedule. Try to plan meals at about the same time each day. The same is true for nap time and bed time. Children respond well to a routine. Their bodies physically adapt to it, and their time clock will, in time, automatically respond to it.
Give your child choices in order to avoid time-consuming tantrums. If you're tired of being late to work because your child won't wear the clothes you put out for him or her, try laying out two or three outfits the night before and allow them to pick what they will wear in the morning. You'll be amazed how readily they'll get dressed when they did the choosing.
As a parent, take the time to give your child or children physical attention. Your children seek a physical bond with you, and it can be accomplished by giving each other lots of hugs, kisses, and even by snuggling with them watching their favorite television program or reading a book with them.
Allow your child to pick out what instrument they want to play and even to decide if they want to play an instrument in the first place. Guidance is good, but manipulation is not. The flute might be more palatable to our aging ears but they may indeed be heartbroken if they can't play the snare drum!
Parenting requires balance! Find a good balance between punishment and reward. You don't want to push your children too hard, but at the same time you don't want to be too easy on them. You need to find the right balance between the two, so that your children can achieve much without cracking under the pressure!
While homework time can be a major source of friction at home, it can also be a gateway to a more positive relationship between you and your children. Instead of just telling the kids to go work on their assignments, take a moment to sit and go over your child's work or even just ask about what they are working on. These small efforts help show your kids that you value their efforts and care for their academic progress.
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